There is a reason why people will ask for your Drivers license or other proof of ID. Giving your name or phone number is not worth a damn because anyone can get that information and pretend they are that person. When someone asks for an ID it is because they are trying to protect you from someone else being able to take control of your account and doing damage; it is not because they are trying to be an asshole to you.

If the policy says you must provide a photo ID then you must do so, if you do not have a photo ID or do not wish to provide it to the person requesting it then get the hell out and do not complain. The official policy is everyone must have a membership card or provide a photo ID so deal with it or get the hell out. So from now on do not piss and moan to me about having to provide an ID, this the same policy everyone is kept to, no sir you are not the exception so deal with it.